Here’s the Actual Question to Ask When You Want Someone to Change

It’s time to get real

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We might consider whether people can change when we’re in a painful relationship. Perhaps someone mistreats us or doesn’t love us back. What we want from them isn’t forthcoming, and we suffer.

If only they would be more like this, we think, or less like that, we would be happy. We give them…



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✨ Bridget Webber

✨ Bridget Webber


Writer, former counselor, author, and avid tea drinker learning how to live well.